Being Bold: Is it Magical?

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“Whatever you can do, or dream you can do, begin it. Boldness has genius, power and magic in it.”

So tell me, what’s holding you back?

In a field where social media has opened up instant doors to an international knowledge base, I think something holding many of us back is the questioning. We question whether a.) We are smart enough b.) experienced enough c.) or afraid to go against the norm.

Insight can come from all levels of experience – and no one should ever feel shunned because they ask a question or make a suggestion. Listening is the first step. What we should be doing is evolving a natural curiosity and pushing ourselves past the limit. Easier said than done, right?

Don’t View Life as Strategy

Business Model. Strategy. Target Demographic. (Insert Marketing Principle Here.) We live our professional lives by terms and objectives. Don’t let it influence your personal life or your learning style. Being creative is being able to break out from stipulations and outside forces. Define yourself, then seek out other thought. Find your passions. If you try to learn with an open slate, you are exposed to other ideas and trains of thought.

Be an Explorer

Step 1: Be open to new ideas and thought leadership. It could come from those with 10 more years of experience or from a peer. Study charts, read books and devour statistics. The foundation base for knowledge will help you delve into deeper subjects . Sometimes the best ideas come from crappy beginnings.

Step 2: Be willing to admit when you don’t know something. It’s ok to ask questions and press for more information. Form your own conclusions and build upon it. Build relationships with those who will both motivate and challenge you. Opposites attract, especially in mentor/friend type relationships.

Know that You Can Have Magic

It’s easy to feel beaten down. We’ve all been there. Surround yourself only with those that make a difference in your life. Time is an investment, and it’s not worth it to waste on those who could care less. The mistake we often make as public relations professionals is to think that everyone should be listening to us. Choose your audience carefully - there are some that will misconstrue the person you are and tell everyone what they believe. Think of it as people viral marketing – or that old game of telephone.

Be a Genius in Your Own Right

There are so many different levels of genius, it’s incredible. The best teams that work together are the ones that challenge but think cohesively.  We all think differently, and while I might see life in color and a puzzle to discover, you might see black/white and varying principles. It’s ok to think differently. It’s ok to put yourself out there. It’s ok to challenge thought leadership – and if you’re wrong, learn from it. Why do you keep hitting yourself over and over in the head with a hammer when innovation is happening all around you?

“Be yourself. Above all, let who you are, what you are and what you believe, shine through every sentence you write, every piece you finish.”

Do we let limitations define us? When is it not ok to compromise?


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  • Janet Aronica
    I like this. Recently, I've had a bit of a self "re-definition" thing going on. I started a different that wasn't exclusively focused on PR and social media. But in those areas, I've chosen to "redefine" myself as an aggressive student of the space, by sharing and commenting on articles that taught me something. (ie, blog posts like this one! ;P) I was pretty nervous about going that direction...didn't know if personal branding-wise doing a fitness blog would be the best choice but I'm glad I followed my heart and didn't overthink that choice.
  • dawn
    Be a genius in your own right... Love it! So true about being true to yourself and letting that shine thru everything you to. Thanks for the reminder :)
  • Akash Sharma
    Hi Lauren, Fantastic post....everyone has dreams which keep on changing during the course of age, but one thing remains common that you have to give it your best shot and you can do it if and only you really want it instead of copying someone.
    We have everything which we need to perform consistently towards living our dreams, right kind of information and the best people can be reached easily, so why not crush it.....
    I love your thoughts, now listening to your ‘Entitled’ Gen Y post on Marketing Profs...
  • Erica M. Martinez
    WOW. A and B are at the top of my mind all too often. I let them trample on my passion and creativity and gone are the blog posts and questions for many of those I admire in social media/PR. Thanks for the inspiration Laura - you are amazing!
  • laurenfernandez
    Pretty sure you're quite amazing yourself!

    Don't let anything hold you back. Everyone has the right to question, engage and learn. Those that beat you down aren't worth it.

    I'm glad to have people like you in my life!
  • I love that quote by Johann Wolfgang von Goethe . I actually have it attached to the bottom of my email signature!
  • laurenfernandez
    One of the best quotes out there - I love it!
  • kescovedo
    I love this post. I can't tell you how many of my best ideas started with this thought, "This will either be utterly brilliant, or a complete train wreck." I have very few ideas in between. I particularly like your advice to "surround yourself only with those who make a difference in your life because time is an investment and it's not worth it to waste on those who could care less." You are wise beyond your years, my friend.
  • laurenfernandez
    Thanks, K!

    I think you have the right approach when it comes to ideas - you can't be hesitant. It might be a terrible idea, but you can grow from it. Some of the best ideas are built from a bad one.

    I am definitely someone who puts others before myself - but have realized recently that I can't invest into someone who doesn't want it. Your true friends deserve more.
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